How Yelling destroys the
relation between you and your child
The moment you feel like your child is making you crazy as
hell or misbehaves almost all the times and as a parent, you try to handle the
situation by violence almost all the time. But instead of losing your cool
things can be handled more patiently so as to avoid hatred in your children's
hearts for yourself.
1.
Sometimes all you need is to breathe. By
inhaling, exhaling multiple times the situations can be handled with ease
without any kind of violence. Telling your child to keep the book complete
while you have your office work done and after completing your work, the book
is still incomplete which makes you angry and you might end up yelling up on
your child.
2.
Every kid is polite or sweet it is just
the thing that their behaviour stinks sometimes. While teaching your kid to
play any sport do you punish them for not doing well at the first instance? Of
course not you tell them to follow some basics tips and then by practising they
learn to perform well. So do learn to be patient without hitting your kid all the
time.
3.
But sometimes you should be a role model
for them so that they can learn good things from you and get inspired to be
like you. The main thing is to be calm and humble towards other and all this
starts from your side. Teach them the natural consequences and ignore certain
behaviour because they try many things to seek your attention.
4.
You should allow your child to express
their feelings about how they feel about certain action so it's a lesson for
you so as not to perform it back in the future. If your child doesn't like
violence or fights then you both should stop fighting.
5.
Make some clear rules for your kid and
don’t make it strict that it gets hard to follow them. The rules can be of the
dinner time, study and playing time. This will help your child to manage and
organize his / her time as they grow up.
6.
Before yelling at your child find out the
reason behind your yell. This is the most important part even if your child
have not done any mistake yelling for no reason will only create hatred in
their mind towards you. Sit with your partner and discuss the problem behind
your unnecessary yelling.
7.
Desensitized is caused when you yell at
your child almost every time. First it is done to seek his attention towards
you but as you do it regularly it will not create much impact on them.
8.
Remember that losing the control on your
child means you’ve lost all the respect. Kids usually avoid talking to the ones
who are offensive all the time and keep yelling at them throughout the day for
no great reason.
Go through these points once and try to track the relation
between you and your child before it's too late because parents are their kid’s
first friends and they would not like it to break this friendship.
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